Why Not Me?
Saturday, November 02, 2024
WHY NOT ME?
When we see someone else Basking in Success and ask ourselves the Question, “Why Not MEEE?”, it creates a Pang of Envy and maybe even, a Twinge of Jealousy.
SHIFTing the same Three Words into a Different type of Question, can be a Pivot Point!
They way we Interpret, Think about, and Use these Three Words, can either Drag us Down Emotionally, or it can help us to RISE UP, depending on How we Choose to Ask, or Say these Three Words.
In this Blog, we are going to Explore the two sides of "Why Not Me?"
The side that Holds us Back, rooted in Envy, Comparison and Jealousy, and the Other Side of Empowerment, Confidence and Conviction!
“Why Not MEEEE?”
The Trap of Envy and Jealousy
Envy and Jealousy is something we find ourselves Feeling when we can't seem to have what someone else appears to have.
It keeps us stuck in Negative Thoughts that make us Feel less than, Unworthy, and therefore, Unable to attain the Success that others Seem to Accomplish.
The Feelings of Envy and Jealousy keep us Focused on others, rather than on ourselves and what we can do.
The Result, keeps us in a Cycle of Comparison and, In-Action!
When we ask ourselves, “Why Not MEEE?” while watching Someone Else Achieve what we Desire, it can put us into a Spiral of Resentment.
Our Thoughts Swirl around and around with Negative Thoughts towards others, who we feel don't Deserve their Success.
If we don't SHIFT our Thoughts, it can Drain our Energy, Cloud our Judgement and Keep us Immobile.
Social Media is a Great Example of Today's Envy and Jealousy.
Psychologists have even coined a Term for it: "Social Comparison Effect", which is what happens when we Constantly Compare ourselves to Others, often leading to Feelings of Inadequacy and Asking ourselves, "Why Not MEEE?
“Why NOT Me?”
Embracing Possibility and Potential
When we SHIFT our MINDset to "Why NOT Me?" with an emphasis on NOT, we SHIFT our Minds into Possibilities for ourselves.
This Shift Creates a Sense of Curiosity and Hopefulness, which EmPOWERs us to Create Possibilities for ourselves.
Instead of Focusing on Other's Successes, we Look at their Success, see it as Evidence that it is Possible, Embrace that Possibility and SHIFT our MINDset to "Why NOT Me?"
This opens us up to let in these Positive Possibilities, to allow Good Things to Happen to us, to Get us Going into the Direction we Desire.
We begin to see Other's Successes, Achievements etc., as Benchmarks and Proof that YES, it CAN Happen to us!
By Viewing those Three Words with a Different Emphasis, it Activates our Growth MINDset, and it Stimulates our Belief in Ourselves.
It Shows us that Abilities, Consistency and Inspired Action can get us to where we want to be.
When we Adapt a Growth MINDset, we become more Resilient, Confident and, we are More Likely to Take Action towards our Goals.
By Looking at Others with Admiration, it can Inspire us, Increase our Motivation, Productivity, and even Improve our Happiness.
3🔑KEY STEPS to
Transforming Envy into Inspiration
🔑#1. Acknowledge the Envy:
Experiencing Feelings of Envy can be used as a Signal to SHIFT our Thoughts.
Instead of Continuing with our Thoughts of Jealousy, we can Acknowledge our Thoughts, and then Say to Ourselves that what we are Thinking is Not True, that we Are Worthy, and we Can Have what Others 'seem' to Have.
(Why Not MEEEE?) Old Thought: Why Does She have a Large Social Media Following and I don't?
(Why NOT Me?) New Thought: WOW, look she did it and so can I. I'm going to Follow my Plan and Take Consistent Action!
🔑#2. Ask Better Questions:
We need to start SHIFting our Thoughts to Create Better and More EmPOWERing Questions for ourselves.
(Why Not MEEEE?) Old Thought: Why does He have such a Great Job and I don’t? He doesn't Deserve it.
(Why NOT Me?) New Thought: Good for him. If he can do it, so can I. Now What Steps do I need to take in order to get that kind of a Job?
🔑#3. Recognize we are Unique:
Everyone’s Journey is Unique, with Different Starting Points, Experiences, Backgrounds etc. No One will ever Be the Same, or Have the Exact Same Experiences.
Trust we are all on our Own Journey with our Own Unique Experiences and Destinations.
(Why Not MEEEE?) Old Thought: Why can't I have that Lifestyle? What did I do Wrong?
(Why NOT Me?) New Thought: I'm Super Grateful for where I am now. I want that 'Kind-of' Lifestyle, and I'm going to do
my best to attain something similar.
WHY NOT ME?
When we SHIFT our Perspective on these Three Words, it SHIFTs our Reality.
By Letting Go of the Focused Attention of MEEEE, "Why Not MEEEE" and SHIFTing it to the Conviction of "Why NOT Me?", we give ourselves the Permission to DREAM BIGGER, to be Inspired and, Encouraged.
We begin to Recognize Our Worth, and that we too, Deserve Success, and Happiness.
By SHIFTing our Thoughts to Believing in "Why NOT Me?", it becomes our Battle Cry, our Knowing that we too Can Have what we see, Do what we see and, Be who we see.
The Achievements of others become Road Signs that Show us What's Possible, and Signals us, that we are UnSTOPable!
When we Choose to be Inspired by Saying "Why NOT Me?" Our World WILL Turn Around for us!
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